First and foremost, I would like to thank everyone, on the behalf of our entire family, for all of the care, concern, warm wishes and love that you have shown us over the past few days. Although word has travelled fast and many of you have been in contact with us for updates, I have decided to start this blog as a means of mass communication regarding my father's condition from here on out. Because he is who he is, and because he has touched the hearts of so many in his lifetime, I'm sure you all can imagine the flood of calls that have continued to come in over the last day or so, and though all the calls are greatly appreciated and received with a great deal of gratitude and love on our end, maintaining communication through this blog will certainly be much easier for everyone involved.
I suppose I'll start just by giving a brief overview of what has happened over the past 24 hours, for the benefit of anyone who has not already heard all the details. Around 8:30 am yesterday morning, my father began having chest and lower back pain and, suspecting a possible heart attack, proceeded to call his doctor, who told him to go to the emergency room immediately. Once there, they began to run tests and quickly discovered that he had a rare condition called aorta dissection, or aorta split. Rather than to try to explain what that is, I have copied a brief explanation here.
"The aorta is the major artery that carries blood from the heart to the rest of the body. Aortic dissection occurs when the inner layer of the aorta’s artery wall splits open (dissects). This is more likely to occur where pressure on the artery wall from blood flow is high. One such place is the ascending aorta (the first segment of the aorta), where the aorta originates from the heart’s left ventricle (pumping chamber). This is the part of the aorta closest to the heart (thus the name proximal aorta).
When the aortic wall splits, the pulses of blood get inside the artery wall and under the inner layer. This makes the aorta split further. This tear usually continues distally (away from the heart) down the descending aorta and into its major branches. Less often the tear may run proximally (back toward the heart)."
Just for a visual, the aorta is shaped like an upsidedown horseshoe, with the heart on the lower left end. As you continue up around top curve (the ascending aorta), there are the two major vessels that carry the blood up to the brain (smaller vessels that carry the blood through the arms also branch off of these). Coming down the other side of the horseshoe is the descending aorta, which eventually branches out to carry blood to other major organs like the kidneys, liver, spleen, etc.
In my father's case, the split ran from just above his heart (through the ascending aorta) up along two major vessels at the top and all the way down the descending aorta toward his other organs. Upon diagnosis, the doctors at Brockton Hospital phoned immediately for the Medflight to take my father into Beth Israel where two cardiovascular teams were already waiting. Once there, his condition was assessed and he was taken in for surgery to replace the ascending aorta entirely with a synthetic aorta. They also discovered at that time that the valve between the heart and aorta was damaged and replaced it with a tissue valve (or pig valve) that will eventually need to be replaced 15-20 years down the line. He did have the option of a mechanical valve, but this would have required him to be on powerful blood thinners for the rest of his life, so my mother and aunt decided together that the tissue valve would be best.
The surgery began around 2:45 in the afternoon and lasted late into the evening. He made it through the operation without too much complication, aside from some internal bleeding that is common with any heart surgery, and this was taken care of and carefully monitored throughout the rest of the night. He was, however, at a major risk for stroke during the surgery. Replacing the aorta involved attaching the synthetic aorta to the two major vessels to the brain and left arm. Because of the proximity of the tear to those two main vessels, the surgeons had to stop the bypass to the brain in order to replace the aorta, which actually stopped the bloodflow to the brain for a period of time. We wouldn't know whether a stroke or other brain damage had occurred until morning.
Much to our relief, we received a call around 11am this morning letting us know that they had roused him up and that he was responsive, his vitals were strong and he was able to move his arms and legs upon command. Thus far, there is no evident paralysis that would have been indicative of a stroke. He woke up out of the anesthesia fighting the doctors (which is also normal for younger men after surgery) so they did have to put him back under for safety's sake, but, all things considered, he has pulled through thus far with very little complication. He remains on a breathing tube and sedated and they will try to rouse him again this afternoon. The doctors will continue to run tests on other organs that may have been affected by the tear in the descending aorta, which will most likely also require further surgery to repair. Last night's surgery, however, was the most crucial, and I cannot even begin to express our relief and gratitude to the many doctors, nurses, and medflight team who worked so quickly to save his life.
The next few days will be crucial, of course, and I will keep everyone posted on here. I do not personally have everyone's phone numbers or e-mails, so if you are able, please pass along this url to anyone else who may need or want to remain informed. Thank you all again for your love and support. You are forever in our hearts.
Marissa, and the Forman/Guild family
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Sorry to hear about your dad!! If you need anything from me and my family (babysitter or someone to talk to) don't hesitate to ask!!!
Please let us know if we can help with anything...
We love you all.
Love Auntie Nancy and Uncle David
I know that you may not know me. Nevertheless, my heart goes out to you and your family. Best wishes to you and your family. May your loved one have a smooth and speedy recovery. God Bless!
Ruth Louis
Lisa, Marissa and the rest of your family members,
My thoughts are with you during this significant and difficult time. I will be sure to include you in my heart's prayer for Barry and his speedy and stress-free recovery.
Thoughts and Love
John McCabe
Our thoughts are with you every second.
Let us know if we can do anything.
We love all of you.
Auntie Joanni & Uncle Stu
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad Marissa! I will pray for a fast recovery. Please let your mom know that I can come to work at any point of time to help out, so she can be on your father's side. Continue to keep us posted.
Alex Bruttaniti
Hi all...To the fam...you guys know that everyone in the office is thinking and praying for Barry and you...
As for you Barry, when you get back to work, I want to see what they did to your hairy chest! I've always told you to trim that thing...But to shave it all...WOW! Hey, you needed it anyways!
Also, I have been playing our usual Keno numbers during lunch...I even played that freakin dog race game that I hate...Well guess what??? We haven't won a freakin' thing yet...and oh...by the way...you now owe me $15...I know you'd want in!
We miss you at the office...Take care!
Steve
Hi Lisa, Marissa and Hailey,
Kim just forwarded me the "blog" and we were very shocked and saddened by the recent event. I am a cardio thoracic ICU nurse in Boston, so I know exactly what Barry is going through. If you guys have any questions at all, please email me and ask. I can be reached at Leigh.Keezer@bmc.org.
Talk to you soon. Leigh and Brian
hey everyone,
i would like to say keep holding on, uncle barry will come through! I miss you guys! I would like to tell you that I dedicated my dance, at disney world on wednesday, to uncle barry. I danced my heart out for him to get better! All of the hard work worked. he's doing better! when he gets home i'll dance for him again, but i'll do my specialty, MICHAEL JACKSON!! please tell him and i promise to do this. I hope he comes home soon! We love you all and wish you the best!
Our thought,love & prayers are with all during these difficult time. Ann Chuckie and myself were shocked to hear about barry's condition and know he will have a speedy recovery.
Thought & Love,
Ann, Chuck & Chuckie
Dear Lisa,
Royce and I are so sorry to hear the sad news. I am so thankful that I was able to meet you and Barry and your wonderful children at Ken and Heather's wedding. You are so special My prayers are with you . love, Bobbie
PRAYER TO THE GUARDIAN ANGEL
Angel of God,
My guardian dear,
To whom His love
Commits me here;
Ever this day ( or night )
Be at Barry side,
To light and guard,
To rule and guide.
Amen.
I'm so glad you have this blog to keep us updated, especially us out of staters. We will continue to keep Barry and everyone else in our prayers. We love you guys and we're thinking of you. I wish we were there to help out. Josh and Matthew especially wish Uncle Barry a speedy recovery.
Helena has been keeping the Mael family up-to-date regarding Barry's condition. Our thoughts and prayers are with him. Please let us know if we can help in any way.
Love, Cousin Robin
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